Monday, January 9, 2012
How do I deal with a controlling boyfriend?
Hello! First off, let me say I have been with this guy for 3 months, and he runs my life. I lost quite a bit of friends, especially guys. I'm not allowed to have any guys as friends or else he's "leaving." His excuse is he gets jealous a lot. Some of my other friends were "bad influences," so I had to tell them goodbye. And he's skeptical of me visiting my mom in the city because it's "dangerous" there. He gets mad SO easily. One little thing that he doesn't agree with he'll flip out! Mad, mad. Not to the point where he puts his hands on me (never did that & says he never will), but where he'll just get really pissed off and ignore me. He says it's because he's hotheaded, but I don't know. And GOD FORBID if I talk to another guy. He'll reeeeally ignore me then. But of course he can say hi to girls & whatnot. Oh, and I'm not allowed to wear finger-tip length shorts because those are "skank" shorts, and if I do he "won't talk to me." I know he's been hurt BAD in the past by girls, and family so I sort of feel bad. He's so attractive to me :) Beautiful eyes, great smile, nice body... Don't get me wrong his personality is outstanding! He treats me right. Better then any other guy did. He's loyal, calls me on time, puts me before his friends and family. But he has a short temper, and is controlling, and I don't know how much more I can take. It doesn't help that I lost my V-card to him either. I really really do love this kid! We have SOOO much in common it's unreal. It's almost like we were meant to be. It would kill me inside to break up with him, but I gotta do what I gotta do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
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