Are those your kids? Black people are rude and nosey. Why is it socially ok for a blk/man n w/f to have kids?

I am black hubby white. I didn't set out on a white guy to begin with. I am well traveled and have been exposed to dif ethnic groups. I love foreign and american men. Ladies don't sell yourself short. My kids could "p" for white. I don't want my kids to have a complex, cause people say how beautiful they are. Other kids are just as cute as mine and not mixed either. People do treat cute kids differently. Its hurtful to me, I try to down play and ignore the oohs and aahs. Do I tell them to mind there own business or educate them on its possible for a black woman to have very light skin children.